Tuesday, December 23, 2008

Davey and the First Christmas

Davey and the First Christmas 
by Beth Vardon
Let's pretend there was a boy, and Davey was his name,
Whose family lived in Bethlehem when Christmas time first came.

Davey had a special pet--a donkey small and gray,
And what the two of them did best was getting in the way!

Davey named the donkey Tim. He never rode him though.
Either Tim was built too high or Davey was too low!...


Davey's father had an inn where people came to stay;
And lots and lots and lots of them were coming there one day.

His father was as busy as six or seven bees!
So Davey said, "I want to help, can't I do something, please?
Tim would like to help you, too.
Find a job for us to do!"

"Listen, son," his father said; "Last week you broke three jugs.
You scared my two best customers with your pet lightening bugs!
You tracked in mud on my clean floor; you tripped and dropped the bread.
And though I loved the fish you caught--why leave them on my bed?

I've put up with your helpfulness as long as I am able.
So do me one big favor now, get out--and clean the stable!"

Davey sadly went and stood beside the stable door
It hardly seemed that anyone could clean that dirty floor.
He and Tim both felt so bad they started in to cry--
But then (thought Davey), "Yes, we can! Well, anyhow--let's try.

First, let's chase those chickens out. That's what we've got to do."
So, Tim began to flap his ears while Davey shouted, "Shooooo!"
The chickens clucked and flew and ducked, they fluttered wild and scary,
Until their feather filled the air, like snow in January

Yes, Davey chased those chickens out, He and Tim together.
But now he had to get a sack and pick up every feather!

You should have seen how hard they worked! They stacked up all the wheat,
They straightened up the harnesses until they were nice and neat.
They fought with spiders bravely till they chased out every bug.
And since we must admit the truth--they broke another jug!

The very biggest job of all was stacking up the hay.
Davey climbed up to the loft and put it all away.
Look, Tim, You see how high it is? I'll make just one more trip."
Then clear up by the stable roof his feet began to slip!

Down came the hay and Davey, too. The stable looked so queer˜
All you could see was piles of hay--one sandal, and one ear!
Slowly they came out on top, and Davey didn't whine,
Though hay stuck out all over him just like a porcupine!

He put the hay all back again and stacked it up with care--
But left one armload down below to fill the manger there.

So Davey's work was done at last, and when it all looked neat
He picked some flowers to trim the barn, and some for Tim to eat.
"I hope it's clean enough," he thought. "At least I did my best."
And feeling very, very tired, he curled up for a rest.

Who woke up Davey from his sleep? Just guess them if you can.
Mary was the woman's name; Joseph was the man,
Mary said, "Oh Joseph, look! This is a lovely place!"
Then, seeing Davey there, she said, with shining face,


Your father's inn had no more rooms; tonight we're staying here.
So tell me now, are you the boy who cleaned the stable, dear?
And did your donkey help you work? We want to thank him, too."
Though Davey was still half-asleep, his heart was glad clear through.

So, that is how a little boy two thousand years ago,
Stayed on to hear the angels sing, and see the Star aglow.

As soon as Baby Jesus came to use the manger bed;
Then Davey's sack of feathers made a pillow for his head.
No one told Davey anymore that he was in the way.
His work had helped get ready for the world's first Christmas Day!

Hope your Christmas is as wonderful as the first Christmas! 
Con amor,
Vero

Monday, December 1, 2008

Our family picture 2008


This was our family Christmas card picture taken at the Merkley's family farm in November 2008 as we celebrated thanksgiving in Williamsburg. From left to right: Brooks, Cristi, Vero, Bianca, Joseph and Mandy.

Picture was taken by Parry Merkley.

This is a time in my life when I have decided I would enjoy my single life to the fullest since I could travel and be free to do anything I want.  It is a time I am able to spend with my daughters and completely enjoy every minute of us being together.

Merry Christmas!

Thursday, November 13, 2008

Visit from Mexican Group


We had a training at the Rotary club by the Mexican government of their 3x1 program.

Friday, October 24, 2008

good old Halloween time




I helped at the Reid School Halloween carnival. One of the girls there and I were twins.

Friday, September 12, 2008

Donation to the Salt Lake City library


I have donated a collection of 30 books to the Salt Lake City library from Salvadoran Authors to be checked out.

Saturday, September 6, 2008

Giving away car seats







I helped with traslating for people who needed a car seat and found out that most of the people who came were driving nice SUV's and not the type that you would think couldn't afford a car seat. I guess some people find out how to work the system.

Friday, August 22, 2008

August 20 2008

August 20th 2008 marks the end of a marriage, my marriage to Brad Van Leeuewn. I received a letter from the judge with the date and his signature. It was a simple piece of paper of no value like our marriage was to Brad. It is going to be weird to think that as when you look at a dash on the tomb of someone who has died it marks the beginning and the end. For us, it was September 11, 1981 - August 20, 2008. But this slow death  really started on March 2003.

I can't believe I waited five and a half years for a miracle that never happened. What every married woman wants is a husband that someday will be called grandpa, a hero, an anchor and an example of a loving husband in whom you can sense a loving bond between grandma and grandpa. We are not yet grandparents but I am sure someday we will be and how sad that we won't be there together to see our daughters give birth. 

This is fresh in my mind because the Bekkers were in Church attending sacrament meeting when all of the sudden they got up and left in the middle of the meeting. He is our stake President so that was unusual but it was because their son and daughter in law had just given birth to their grandson and they needed to rush over to the Hospital. That will never happen with us. We will never be together welcoming our grand babies and that breaks my heart!  

How tragic is also for us not to have family pictures together. No more vacations as a family either. We won't share anything anymore. We are now complete strangers like if there was nothing that tied us together. This is what divorce does. I don't wish this hell on anyone.

Marriage between a man and a woman is ordained of God and is intended to be eternal. In Matthew 19:5 we read: "For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh" Marriage is often referred to a partnership with God. Obviously Brad didn't see it that way. He broke his promise. When I married him, he was a man who truly loved me,  his wife, and one who honored his priesthood, one who showed respect and fidelity to me and gave me no reason to ever doubt his faithfulness. But he changed.

The million dollar question is: Knowing what I know now, would I have married Brad? probably yes, Because I did give birth to three amazing daughters. They are my life. They are all I care about! I am so sorry, my sweet girls, for not providing you with a stable home. We are now bad examples to you. Please don't do what we did. Please, don't ever think the answer to your marital problems is to get a divorce.

I still think a marriage is so worth it. I am so grateful I had my amazing girls even when it meant so much sorrow for me in the end. One thing I learned from this is that you never know who you really married until you get a divorce and  how real the power of Satan really is. He got him and once you belong to him, he will destroy you. He destroyed our family.

My only prayer is that I will become a better person because of this and one day I can say, I'm o.k. I am a survival and will keep my chin up because the Lord knows I didn't want this to happen. I tried all I could even when it was to no avail. 

Con amor,

Vero

Wednesday, August 13, 2008

ACELA


The ACELA group is my most faithful group that has come to help with all of the mobile Consulates and are so dedicated to the Community.

Thursday, July 3, 2008

Books for hogar


The natalia de Siman hogar received books donated to them. I became good friends with the nuns.

Saturday, June 28, 2008

The Help International group 2008


I adore this group of kids from Utah. In this picture I had invited them to spend a day at the oceanos beach house as a little thank you for all of what they do for the people of El Salvador.
They come every year to do community service.

Friday, June 20, 2008

Cuatepeque lake


there is not anything as beautiful as lake cuatepeque. I wish that some "inversionista" would do somthing with that Lake. It is the best kept secret.

Saturday, May 24, 2008

With the Vice Minister and Consul General


A attended the annual dinner at the Belgio in Las Vegas to get ideas of a similar thing that our Salvadoran club could do in Salt Lake.

Friday, February 15, 2008

Mobile Consulates


This is a picture of a mobile consulate in progress.
Family and friends come to the City Hall to help out every year to fill out the paperwork for the Temporary Permit Status for Salvadorans or TPS