Thursday, November 4, 2021

Don't open your mouth


“Whosoever keepeth His mouth and his tongue, keepeth his soul from trouble.” Proverbs 21:23 


Scriptures on when to Keep your mouth shut 


In the heat of anger- Proverbs 14:17

When you don’t have all the facts- Proverbs 18:13

When you haven’t verified the story- Deuteronomy 17:6

If your words will offend someone- 1 Corinthians 6:11

If your words will be a poor reflection of God, your friends and family- Peter 2:21-22

When you are tempted to joke about sin- Proverbs 14:9

When you would be ashamed of your words later- Proverbs 8:8 

When you are tempted to make light of holy things- Ecclesiastes 5:2

If your words would convey a wrong impression- Proverbs 17:27

If the issue is none of your business- Proverbs 14:10

When you are tempted to tell an outright lie- Proverbs 4:24

If your words will damage someone’s reputation- Proverbs 16:27

If your words will destroy a friendship- Proverbs 25:28

When you are feeling critical- James 3:9

If you can’t speak without yelling- Proverbs 25-28

When it is time to listen- Proverbs 13: 1

If you may have to eat your words later- Proverbs 18:21

If you have already said it more than one time, then it becomes nagging- Proverbs 19:13

When you are tempted to flatter a wicked person- Proverbs 24:24

When you are supposed to be working instead- Proverbs 14:23


I had a situation that was misunderstood and have learned that when I don’t agree with someone, I need to simply ignore it. Moral of the story, “Don’t open your mouth” because like the saying goes. “En boca cerrada, no entra moscas.”  

 

 Con amor,

Vero

Wednesday, November 3, 2021

Quick trip for Day of the dead

I took a very short trip to Uruguay for two nights and three days. I left Monday morning and got back today. Many people were traveling back and forth to visit family for the Day of the Dead Holiday similar to Memorial Day in the United States. How lucky for Daniel and family to have Nela alive and well. She lights up when she sees her children and grandchildren visit her, the same way my grandmother Hilda used to light up with a big smile as well. She would be 97 if she were alive today. 

 

Remembering Mama Hilda 

Hilda Alvarenga married Carlos Henriquez at age 15 and had 8 children by the time she was 28. In those days in 1939 when she got married, it was not uncommon to marry that young. You could legally get married at age 14. 

 

Mami Hilda is a Latter-day Saint pioneer of El Salvador. She was asked to be the Relief Society President of the first small branch in San Salvador. That story has been published in the Daughters in My kingdom publication for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, pg.92.

 

Mami Hilda liked being her own boss. She owned a Beauty Salon and a Boutique where women would buy clothes, shoes, make-up, perfumes. Her business grew to even sell toys and even home goods like towels and sheets.  It was like a mini Target. I remember in December you could hear the cash register ringing constantly and you could see people lined up to pay for gifts they were buying for Christmas. 

 

Mami Hilda had a way of letting you know what she was thinking. When she spoke, she never kept you guessing. If she didn’t like something she would tell you up front. She was known to be candid, bold but always sincere. She didn’t waste time going around in circles. Some people thought she was a little up -tight but one thing I remember is that she managed kids very well. Her biggest fear was to raise spoil brats or parasites. She would give them one look, and they knew what she meant. She wanted her children to get an education and succeed on their own 

 

Mama Hilda cooked the best food. She created the best dishes from scratch. Her chili con carne, spaghetti, chicken soup and pan con pavo were the best! She loved cake and quesadilla too, even when she knew she was diabetic. 

 

The last time I saw my grandmother, Hilda was right before she passed away. The doctors discovered she had cancer when she was about my age but didn’t tell her so she wouldn’t get sad, and died a few years after that. 

 

“These are a few of her favorite things.” 

 

If mami Hilda were alive today, this is what I would say to her closing my eyes to reach out to you in Heaven.  

 

Mami Hilda, I read recently that the same part of the brain that is in charge of processing our senses is also at least in part for storing emotional memories, with that in mind, when I think my life is too hard, I think of you. If I long to hear your voice and see your smile, I FaceTime my mother. I will buy a new dress and a nice pair of shoes like the ones you sold in your boutique. I would get a manicure or pedicure, splashing some Jean Nate to my feet and legs and why not, a massage and facial too just like the ones you offered at your salon. I would write poems the way you used to. I would sing in a choir like you even though I can’t carry a tune. I would learn crochet to make a beautiful, scarf, blanket or make Barbie dresses too. I would ask Alexa to play los churumbeles from Spain or a Carlos Gardel’s tango like “El dia que me quieras” I would go to the beach and sip on a cold coconut drink. I would travel to Europe, your favorite destination. I would watch a novella, visit a small town, and buy from a random vendor just to contribute to his or her business and find someone I could give those things to. I would cook up a storm and invite the family for dinner and have huge bottles of Coca-cola on the table. I would get a newspaper and read it from cover to cover to keep up with current events, but most of all, I would read my scriptures and appreciate those teachings found in them to better my life and to know Christ the way you know Him, and I would say a prayer of gratitude to you, closing my eyes to reach out to you in Heaven. 

 

With love,

Vero

Sunday, October 31, 2021

I love to See the Temple

“My beloved brethren and sisters, we greet you again in a great worldwide conference of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

Alma declared, “O that I were an angel, and could have the wish of mine heart, that I might go forth and speak with the trump of God, with a voice to shake the earth, and cry repentance unto every people!” (Alma 29:1).

 

We have reached a point where we can almost do that. The proceedings of this conference will be carried across the world, and the speakers will be heard and seen by Latter-day Saints on every continent. We have come a very long way in realizing the fulfillment of the vision set forth in the book of Revelation: “And I saw another angel fly in the midst of heaven, having the everlasting gospel to preach unto them that dwell on the earth, and to every nation, and kindred, and tongue, and people” (Rev. 14:6).

 

What a tremendous occasion this is, my brothers and sisters. It is difficult to comprehend. We speak from this marvelous Conference Center. I know of no other building to compare with it. We are as one great family, representatives of the human family in this vast and beautiful world.

Many of you participated in the dedication of the Nauvoo temple last June. It was a great and marvelous occasion, one to be long remembered. We not only dedicated a magnificent building, a house of the Lord, but we also dedicated a beautiful memorial to the Prophet Joseph Smith.

In 1841, two years after he came to Nauvoo, he broke ground for a house of the Lord that should stand as a crowning jewel to the work of God.

It is difficult to believe that in those conditions and under those circumstances a structure of such magnificence was designed to stand on what was then the frontier of America.

I doubt, I seriously doubt, that there was another structure of such design and magnificence in all the state of Illinois.

It was to be dedicated to the work of the Almighty, to accomplish His eternal purposes.

No effort was spared. No sacrifice was too great. Through the next five years men chiseled stone and laid footings and foundation, walls and ornamentation. Hundreds went to the north, there to live for a time to cut lumber, vast quantities of it, and then bind it together to form rafts which were floated down the river to Nauvoo. Beautiful moldings were cut from that lumber. Pennies were gathered to buy nails. Unimaginable sacrifice was made to procure glass. They were building a temple to God, and it had to be the very best of which they were capable.

In the midst of all of this activity, the Prophet and his brother Hyrum were killed in Carthage on the 27th of June 1844.

None of us living today can comprehend what a disastrous blow that was to the Saints. Their leader was gone—he, the man of visions and revelations. He was not only their leader. He was their prophet. Great was their sorrow, terrible their distress.

But Brigham Young, President of the Quorum of the Twelve, picked up the reins. Joseph had placed his authority upon the shoulders of the Apostles. Brigham determined to finish the temple, and the work went on. By day and by night they pursued their objective, notwithstanding all of the threats hurled against them by lawless mobs. In 1845 they knew they could not stay in the city they had built from the swamplands of the river. They knew they must leave. It became a time of feverish activity: first, to complete the temple, and secondly, to build wagons and gather supplies to move into the wilderness of the West.

Ordinance work was begun before the temple was entirely completed. It went on feverishly until, in the cold of the winter of 1846, the people began to close the doors of their homes and wagons moved slowly down Parley Street to the water’s edge, then across the river and up the banks on the Iowa side.

Movement continued. The river froze over, it was so bitter cold. But it made it possible for them to move on the ice.

Back to the east they looked for the last time to the city of their dreams and the temple of their God. Then they looked to the west to a destiny they did not know.

The temple was subsequently dedicated, and those who dedicated it said “amen” and moved on. The building was later burned by an arsonist who almost lost his life in the evil process. A tornado finally toppled most of what was left. The house of the Lord, the great objective of their labors, was gone.

Nauvoo became almost a ghost city. It faded until it almost died. The site of the temple was plowed and planted. The years passed, and there slowly followed an awakening. Our people, descendants of those who once lived there, had stir within them the memories of their forebears, with a desire to honor those who had paid so terrible a price. Gradually the city came alive again, and there was a restoration of parts of Nauvoo.

Under the prompting of the Spirit, and motivated by the desires of my father, who had served as mission president in that area and who wished to rebuild the temple for the centennial of Nauvoo but was never able to do so, we announced in the April conference of 1999 that we would rebuild that historic edifice.

Excitement filled the air. Men and women came forth with a desire to be helpful. Large contributions of money and skills were offered. Again, no expense was spared. We were to rebuild the house of the Lord as a memorial to the Prophet Joseph and as an offering to our God. On the recent 27th of June, in the afternoon at about the same time Joseph and Hyrum were shot in Carthage 158 years earlier, we held the dedication of the magnificent new structure. It is a place of great beauty. It stands on exactly the same site where the original temple stood. Its outside dimensions are those of the original. It is a fitting and appropriate memorial to the great Prophet of this dispensation, Joseph the Seer.

How grateful I am, how profoundly grateful for what has happened. Today, facing west, on the high bluff overlooking the city of Nauvoo, thence across the Mississippi, and over the plains of Iowa, there stands Joseph’s temple, a magnificent house of God. Here in the Salt Lake Valley, facing east to that beautiful temple in Nauvoo, stands Brigham’s temple, the Salt Lake Temple. They look toward one another as bookends between which there are volumes that speak of the suffering, the sorrow, the sacrifice, even the deaths of thousands who made the long journey from the Mississippi River to the valley of the Great Salt Lake.

Nauvoo became the 113th working temple. We have since dedicated another in The Hague, Netherlands, making 114 in all. These wonderful buildings of various sizes and architectural designs are now scattered through the nations of the earth. They have been constructed to accommodate our people in carrying forward the work of the Almighty, whose design it is to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of man (see Moses 1:39). These temples have been constructed to be used. We honor our Father as we make use of them.

At the opening of the conference, I urge you, my brethren and sisters, to utilize the temples of the Church.

Go there and carry forward the great and marvelous work which the God of heaven has outlined for us. There let us learn of His ways and His plans. There let us make covenants that will lead us in paths of righteousness, unselfishness, and truth. There let us be joined as families under an eternal covenant administered under the authority of the priesthood of God.

And there may we extend these same blessings to those of previous generations, even our own forebears who await the service which we can now give.

May the blessings of heaven rest upon you, my beloved brethren and sisters. May the Spirit of Elijah touch your hearts and prompt you to do that work for others who cannot move forward unless you do so. May we rejoice in the glorious privilege that is ours, I humbly pray in the name of Jesus Christ, amen.”

President Gordon B. Hinckley, October 2002

Saturday, October 30, 2021

My notes of D & C 124

We are now in Illinois. Two years have passed since the last revelation. This section marks 21 years since the First Vision and 11 years since the restoration. 

Thanks to the good people of Quincy, Illinois, the Saints survived. 

 

Section 124 was given to the Prophet Joseph Smith at Nauvoo Illinois, on January 19th 1841. Because of increasing persecution and illegal procedures against the Saints by public officers they had been compelled to leave Missouri. The extermination order issued by Governor Boggs dated October 27, 1838 left them no alternative. In 1841 when this revelation was given the city of Nauvoo occupying the site of the former village of Commerce, Illinois, had been built up by hard work of the Saints and here the headquarters of the Church had been established. That land was cheap and no one wanted it. It was infested with mosquitos. It was a swamp so they changed the name from Commerce to Nauvoo which in Hebrew means Beautiful. After a few years, Nauvoo became prosperous, it was compared to Chicago, all because of their blood, sweat and tears to build it. Here is a new chance to build His house and it was completed. Sadly, they did not know it then but after four years of hard work, it only lasted two months as the Saints had to leave Nauvoo once again. It was burned and totally destroyed.

 

The Lord starts by saying, “Thank You” for making the new city of Zion beautiful. The Lord chooses the weak things of the earth. Speak with power, wisdom and meekness through the Holy Ghost. On -going revelation. Kingdoms come and kingdoms go but the power of the Lord’s kingdom will stay forever. Let people know what the Lord’s kingdom has to offer. Our purpose is to prepare the earth for the second coming. On April 6,1845, the proclamation is written in a 16-page document. Promises of perfecting the Saints. Have integrity and love what is right. Be without guile, love your testimony and the things that God has in store unto you. Seek to bless the poor and the needy. Harken unto the voice of the Lord.

 

This section tells of who is who. Hyrum is solid gold. Bennett sadly did not live up to his blessings. A reminder that those blessings will come to pass “if “we obey. If we do not do what we are asked to do, we have no promise. Those who have passed, like David Patten, Edward Patridge and Joseph Smith Sr. are among those great souls sitting next to Abraham communing with God. They endured to the end. They were to build a beautiful house of the Lord where baptisms for the dead will be revealed that even the grave is not too late, death is not the end. What happens to all the people who never heard of Jesus Christ? How could they be born again to fulfilled the ordinance of salvation? The Temple is the answer. It was set up that way even before the formation of the world. We dedicate a Holy place. 

They are to also build a boarding house like the Hotel Utah where travelers will feel the spirit and are given the chance to find truth. A beautiful house, not polluted with smocking etc. A place to develop real lasting friendships. It will cost money to build this house but it will pay for itself as a for profit venture. You may invest buying stock in an orderly manner. There is a minimum and a maximum and you can pass ownership to the future generations. What level of sacrifice can you contribute?

 

Give your best shot to keep your word obeying the commandments. Just because you haven’t succeeded, keep it up. It’s proof that you are still trying. Is the trajectory of your life that matters, not the length of your life, if death come quickly is about enduring to the end. This is the time when things need to be done in order. The fullness of the priesthood is restored in Nauvoo. The Temple is where you as an individual receive revelation. Is the place where God will speak to your heart and mind. A quiet, peaceful place in the celestial room used for reflection no matter what is happening outside. Be still and know that I am God and this is my House. This is where we learn the Lord’s law. The Church spares no expense when it comes to building a Temple. Temples are physical manifestations of our faith. Should we invest in the Lord’s kingdom? Yes! 

 

There are some things that were reserved for our day. Be open for the on- going revelation in our day. Procedures change with time but not the Doctrine. A temple wedding is only the start. What matters is what you do afterwards to have a temple marriage. Is like having an empty jar that you fill with good fruit in it and seal it. 

The Lord will accept our offerings because of our efforts. Rest in peace that you did what you could in Missouri. It was not your fault that things did not get finished. Those who prevented from the work going forward will suffer the consequences. If you love me, keep my commandments. William Law, ended up going down the deep end and turned against Joseph Smith and was responsible for his death, pride was always his problem and Sydney Rigdom a spokesman, and right had for Joseph, sadly, did not stay faithful but on the other hand, Hiram, his older brother was right behind Joseph. His son Joseph F Smith and grandson Joseph Fielding Smith and today Elder Ballard are his descendants who remained faithful.  Oliver fell away, he eventually returned. None of us are irreplaceable in the kingdom of God. 

 

(1 Cor. 10:13) You are not tempted above what you are able. Be willing to roll up your sleeves and get to work like the parable of the talents. Live up to your covenants. Repent, be charitable, keep your covenants, put your “stock” into the Kingdom of God. Be a believer in the Book of Mormon. Where your heart is, there will be your treasure. Our patriarchal blessing is there to keep us from faltering but is up to us!  The Church is finally ready to get organized. The Finances get in place. The Church structure and who will fill up all the callings are pronounced, so many positions to fulfill. The work is moving forward. You may raise your hand and approve or disapprove. God can accomplish the work of proclaiming the gospel to kings, rulers, high and low, to all nations, rich and poor. Express your feelings with the power of the Holy Ghost but don’t be pushy. Don’t try to reason gospel principles. People will soften their hearts and in due time, those who are prepared will listen and some may or may not choose to be baptized and that is ok.

Prophets, seers and revelators are not infallible. 

 

 

In Summery the themes of section 124: 

1-14 Joseph Smith is commanded to make a solemn proclamation of the gospel to the President of the United States, the governors, and the rulers of all nations.

15-21 Hiram Smith, David Patten, Joseph Smith Sr. and others among the living and the dead are blessed for their integrity and virtues. 

22-28 The Saints are commanded to build both a house for the entertainment of strangers and the temple in Nauvoo.

29-36 Baptisms for the dead are to be performed in temples

37-44 The Lord’s people always build temples for the performance of holy ordinances 

45-55 The Saints are excused from building the temple in Jackson County because of the oppression of their enemies

56-83 directions are given for the building of the Nauvoo House 

84-96 Hiram Smith is called to be a patriarch to receive the keys and to stand in the place of Oliver Cowdery

97-122 William Law and others are counseled in their labors

123-145 General and local officers are named along with their duties and quorum affiliations. 

 

Verses I marked

124:7-8 Proclaim your testimony to anyone including kings and rulers 

124: 15 Have integrity and love what is right (Job 27:5) “till I die I will not remove mine integrity from me.” 

124: 20 Be without guile (deceit) and love your testimony

124: 21 Seek to bless the poor

124: 23 The Nauvoo House where people will be welcome

124:29 Temple work 

124: 44 Labor with all your might 

124:49 Do your best 

124: 55 Build temples even when is inconvenient to receive blessings 

124: 87 Trust in God and keep the commandments

124:88 Proclaiming the gospel 

124: 92-94 what is bound on earth is bound in heaven 

124: 96 Bear record of the things God had shown unto you

124: 110 Hearken to the voice of the Lord

124: 113 Prove faithful in all things you are entrusted with

124: 116 Repent, be charitable, cease to do evil, don’t slander

124: 119 Be a believer of the Book of Mormon and Doctrine and Covenants

124: 135 Stake Presidents are servants 

124:143 Perfecting the Saints                                                                                                                                           

When reading those verses this scripture came to mind.                                                                                                 Moses 1: 39 For behold this is my work and my glory to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of man. 

 

My “take –aways” when reading section 124

*To me is a testimony of how the Savior is in Charge of His Church no matter what some individuals do or not do. 

*To read my patriarchal blessing because it will be up to me “if” I receive those blessings. 

*Find a way to serve in my calling even when I don’t see immediate results, keep it up and keep going. Don’t give up. Accept any calling  and never resign from a calling.  

 


Friday, October 29, 2021

And what If?

Thought of the week 

 

From the kitchen window in Nauvoo Sarah Kimball watched the Nauvoo Temple being built. Sarah wanted to help in the building process and because of her wish to help with the temple, the idea of the Relief Society was born. 


During this time, Sarah Kimball and Margaret Cook wanted to establish a sewing society to help out the people working on the temple so they asked Eliza R. Snow to write a set of bylaws for their society and took them to Joseph Smith and presented them to him and asked if they were appropriate and good and he said, “they are wonderful” but he said, “Meet together with your group of women on the top floor of my red brick store on March 17th and I have something better for you.” Twenty women were present that day among those women was Emma Smith who was sustained to be the first Relief Society President. He told the women in that meeting that the Church was never perfectly organized until the women were thus organized and Eliza who was taken minutes of these meetings remembered that he said: “Although the name may be of modern date, the institution is of ancient origin. 


We were told by our martyred prophet that the same organization existed in the Church anciently.” Joseph Smith met with the sisters within those first weeks and months of the Relief Society of Nauvoo and he was teaching them what they should do but the important thing is that they were established under the authority of the priesthood. They had a president called who had counselors so they were organized after the pattern of the priesthood and they were given authority and blessings of the priesthood. One of their assignments was in helping the poor and to assist by correcting the morals and strengthening the virtues of the female community so they had a great opportunity of influence in Nauvoo and they thought they were only going to build a temple by sewing. 


Joseph Smith said: “This society is to get instruction through the order which God has established through the medium of those appointed to lead and I now turn the key to you in the name of God and this Society shall rejoice and knowledge and intelligence shall flow down from this time. this is the beginning of better days to this society.” This is clear example of how women are part of this work. Women and men in Nauvoo were building physically side by side and spiritually building up the Saints. Today is the same things, The Relief Society has a mandate to save souls to lead the women of the world, to strengthen the homes of Zion, and to build the kingdom of God. Today over 7 million women, in over 188 countries belong to the Relief Society. Jean B. Bingham is the General President. 


Con amor,

Vero

                                                                                                

Thursday, October 28, 2021

The four C's

The Four C’s: Curiosity, Confidence, Courage, Constancy

 

“Somehow I can’t believe that there are any heights that can’t be scaled by a man who knows the secrets of making dreams come true. This special secret, it seems to me, can be summarized in four C s. They are curiosity, confidence, courage, and constancy, and the greatest of all is confidence. When you believe in a thing, believe in it all the way, implicitly and unquestionable.”-Walt Disney

 

First of all, I have to just say that I LOVE WALT DISNEY but too bad the movies are not the same compare to what they used to be. Shame on them.  I didn’t care for Cruella or the new Cinderella. I don’t know why they don’t let kids be kids. Why introduce them to the ugly side of our society. Anyway, I just think it’s too bad. Before they changed I loved how all tales started with Once Upon a Time… and ended Happily Ever After… and Imagination and Dreams Coming True….  I suppose that is why people of all ages are attracted to their characters. 

 

I love Walt’s quote I began with. And I love the four C’s he talks about. I found this article about it. 

 

“Curiosity is what fuels our imaginations. It drives us to learn and explore and expand our view of what this world could be.

 

Confidence is what helps us to chase after the things we dream about. It helps us remember that we are capable of more than we can begin to imagine we are.

 

Courage is what keeps us going when things get tough. It helps us stand up when we fall and it allows us to stand alone when need be.

 

Constancy is what allows us to keep moving forward in spite of our fears and in spite of our failures. It also inspires others to trust us along the way.

 

I love that he pointed out that confidence was the greatest of all of these.

 

The dictionary defines confidence as: 1. the feeling or belief that one can rely on someone or something; firm trust. 2. the state of feeling certain about the truth of something. 3. A feeling of self-assurance arising from one’s appreciation of one’s own abilities or qualities. Those are the qualities I saw in Daniel. We celebrated twelve years of marriage this month and I have complete confidence that we are in it for the long haul, eternity! 

 

I believe the true meaning of confidence is the combination of all three of those.  In my own life I have found that my confidence comes as a result of 1. A belief that I can always rely on God. 2. Feeling certain that I can trust God completely. 3. A self-assurance that comes from knowing and appreciating that God created me with every talent and gift I would need to accomplish everything I am meant to in this life, and that if I do my part to develop those gifts and talents that He will help me to become everything I am capable of becoming and help me accomplish everything I meant to. Those three things will always equal confidence for anyone who has them.

 

It’s that confidence that encourages us to take our curiosity and begin to imagine what might be, in my case, a new marriage. It’s that confidence that gives us the courage to explore and invent and create. We have created a loving relationship.  It’s that confidence that leads us to believe in MAGIC!

 

To all our children and grandchildren that we adore, have a magical day everyone and remember that dreams really do come true…”

 

Con amor,

Vero

Wednesday, October 27, 2021

Beauty is found in the heart

If you were to rank most deadly animals to humans to least deadly taking animals such as crocodiles, dogs, lions, sharks, mosquitos and snakes. Mosquitos rank the highest over 800, 000 deaths per year compare to 60,000 for snakes, 17, 000 from dogs, 1,000 from crocodiles, 100 from lions and 6 from sharks. 

 

After being forced out of Missouri during the winter of 1838-39, the Saints moved two hundred miles to the Northeast. They began to settle a swamp area across the Mississippi River, originally named Commerce, Illinois. By July 1839, there was an outbreak of Malaria because of the mosquitoes in the swampy area. Malaria continued to afflict the Saints into 1840. 

 

It is interesting how Joseph Smith changed the name of Commerce to Nauvoo which in Hebrew means beautiful or a beautiful place. What’s so beautiful about malaria filled swamps? In the eyes of many, probably nothing. “the Lord seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the Lord looketh on the heart.’ (1 Samuel 16: 7) Thankfully, the Saints could find beauty even in a place like that because the Lord can see the beauty in any circumstance. One of the ways Nauvoo became beautiful was the people that dwelt in it and the temple.

 

Con amor,

Vero