"In a world filled with late-night booty calls, infidelity
and a general “hit it and split it” mentality, it’s easy to become jaded by
today’s dating scene.
As women, we brace ourselves for the worst, proceeding
with extreme caution during the first few months, for fear of falling victim to
the aforementioned debauchery in which so many men partake.
It’s a welcome relief, then, when we stumble upon those
few true gentlemen. They exude chivalry with even their smallest actions, and
remind us that there are still good ones out there.
It doesn’t take a grand gesture or costly display of
affection to win a girl over. Often, it just takes a little sincerity and
display of genuine romantic interest.
Despite popular opinion, chivalry is not dead — here are
9 everyday gestures of men that prove it:
1. Opening doors
A guy who takes the time to come around and open the car
door for you is a keeper, not to mention a commodity this winter.
With certain states getting up to five inches of snow an
hour, do you want to be left standing outside in a blizzard while your date
gets nice and toasty in the driver’s seat?
Recognize and appreciate a guy who puts your comfort and
well-being first, even if it’s just for a few extra seconds.
2. Saving the last bite
of food
They say the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.
So, when he saves the last bite for you, it’s basically him saying he
likes you more than whatever meal is in front of him. Which, for the record, is
a lot.
3. Spending time with
your family
A guy who shows an interest in your baby photos, coaches
your little brother on how to throw a football and compliments your mother’s
cooking is a guy who’s in it for the long haul. These are small gestures, but
they speak volumes about his intentions.
4. Suffering through a
girly movie
When a man volunteers to endure a girly show or movie
because he knows you’ll enjoy it, he earns major bonus points. (Even more if he
does so without complaining or expecting something in return.)
5. Sending flowers
I’m not talking about the $100 bouquet you get on
Valentine’s Day. I’m talking about the grocery store assortment he picked up on
a random Tuesday while thinking of you. There’s just something about unexpected
flowers that makes a girl smile.
6. Walking on the outside
of the sidewalk
The first time someone does this, you will probably be
confused. But then you’ll start to question how come other men in your life
have never been concerned about positioning themselves in such a way that you’d
be protected should curbside tragedy strike.
It’s not a must, but it’s certainly nice to have.
7. Kissing your forehead
Sure, if you’re hoping to date someone and he does this,
it can be a dreaded sign of sibling-like affection.
But, if you’re in a long-term relationship and your guy
does this, it’s a small gesture that can make you feel adored.
8. Filling up your gas
tank
Much like walking on the outside of a sidewalk, this
gesture will probably surprise you the first time it’s performed.
It’s indicative of a man who was raised right and is
generally courteous, which is always a welcome surprise.
9. Putting your jacket on
Women are fully capable of putting their own jackets on,
but it’s not a question of ability. It’s gentlemanly and kind for someone to
hold out your jacket for you or offer you theirs when it’s cold.
These are little ways men show they care, the same way
women have instincts to nurture and protect loved ones. Chivalry is not dead;
men can be everyday knights in shining armor. You just have
to learn to spot the subtle, more meaningful gestures. By Jen Ruiz
I agree with her 100% and that is why I copy pasted her article in here. Daniel does all those things and more. He for instance, does not just fill up the car before he leaves town so I don't have to but also puts the car facing forward so I don't even have to back out. He used to buy me flowers every week until I told him, only to buy them for special occasions. I was too worried of spending too much money and killed his genuine act of kindness. Silly me.
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